I soon discovered that I liked being submissive to a man much more than the dominant role. I either had them suck my dick or we would get in the 69 position. I started out as the dominant person with the guys I met at first. The women always seemed to assume the submissive role and, for me, the more submissive, the better. I was always the aggressor and it turned me on when my wife or other woman would be submissive. I had always been the dominant partner when I was having sex with a woman. Actually, having sex with a man seemed less like cheating to me than having sex with a woman.Ī strange thing happened when I started to have sex with men. My wife is lovely, but she would not be understanding if she found out I had cheated on her with a man(or a woman for that matter). The last thing in the world I want is to mess up my family life. I was afraid something would go wrong if I tried to meet a guy in the city where I lived and I would be caught by my wife or some business person I knew. I kept my activities out of town for the longest time. I loved it! I loved it so much that the first time I sucked a dick, I was so horny I immediately contacted another guy and sucked a second cock. I met guys at my hotel and either they would suck me or I would suck them. The details of my activities will be the subject of another story or two, but suffice to say I finally screwed up the courage to go through with the deal.
Through this process, I learned a lot about how to post an effective ad and how to get many responses. I was horny as hell every time I posted an ad, but would then chicken out before I completed the transaction with any of the guys who responded to my ad. I was afraid of being caught by my wife or contracting some dread disease. I got scared and bailed out numerous times.
Obviously, this was before Craigslist stopped publishing personal ads. I posted some ads on Craigslist in the towns where I went for business. I was travelling a lot for business and started thinking about trying to arrange hooking up with a man. From there, I became interested in gay porn and started thinking that it might be fun to have sex with a guy. The absence of sex caused me to become interested in porn and then transsexual porn. I think it is mostly my wife's fault, but not entirely. By the time I hit 50, the sex had almost stopped. My attractive wife is a lot younger than me and we had an exciting sex life until recent years when the sex started to decrease. I was heterosexual and faithful to my wife until I was in my 50s. I work hard, make a lot of money and go to church almost every Sunday. I am married and have two kids who are terrific. I am a masculine, aggressive businessman who keeps himself in good shape by lifting weights and cycling almost every day.